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Monday, February 28, 2011

Musical Monday




save me from my hokkien song craze!! ;D
Saturday, February 26, 2011

Food For Thought

全球化的距离

丹女
山外山

  她最近做了几件因为“全球化”而变得越来越普遍的事。她在网上买了衣服和书籍。才几天功夫,七八件衣服便从遥远的伦敦寄到香港的家中,她试穿了以后,再将其中四五件不满意的寄回伦敦。

  再过几天,她又收到了自美国各地寄到她家的书籍,从网上她还可以看到书籍正从美国的各个角落乘搭飞机抵达不同的关口不同的飞机场,还有一个邮包因为亚特兰大的大雪而被延误了。她想象那本书被裹在米黄色的邮包纸里,在飞机的某个角落;飞机外下着鹅毛大雪,一片白茫茫的美国……

  上人类学的课,教授说:“全球化就是关于时间与空间的重新组合。时间的重组使得空间的障碍被去除了。”同学们有的听得津津有味,如茅塞顿开;有的半懂不懂,如一头雾水。她觉得这是绕着弯讲道理,把简单的一二三变成玄味十足的、少数人听得懂的理论,令各位专家学者们自我感觉良好。

  空间的障碍或许被去除了,或许因为电脑因为互联网,因为发达的交通网络、媒体网络,她跨越了某种限制;但是新年的时候她回到新加坡,她感觉到那种人与人之间,面对面的交流真是什么网络都难以替代的。距离对方遥远的那段时间里,生活中的喜怒哀乐都不可能第一时间被分享。她们几个中学时代的好友不可能边坐在一起聊天,边品尝彼此都爱吃的日本鱼生;她不可能和父母亲赖在客厅,边喝红酒、边吃应节食品、边讲笑话。她不可能抱着Z三个月大的宝宝,一边和宝宝玩peek-a-boo,一边告诉Z她的宝宝有多精灵可爱。

  就算有多全球化,他们还不是都被身边的人与事卷着跑,不能自拔。向来不喜欢按着规矩做事的弟弟说:“你们这些一直以来在制度里的人,都没有办法跳离制度,从另一个角度看问题。”

  事实是,每一个人都在自己的制度和生活里,陷得很深,无法抽离。像她回去大学念书以后,念书就成了她生活的中心和重心。到哪里去她都在包里带着课本讲义铅笔,随时随地埋首卷中。问她读得这么用心是为了什么,她也不晓得。反正读着读着就陷进去了。这既然是现在的生活,不就得尽力做好活好呗。

  然而一离开香港,她又好像从一个人生掉入了另一个人生。在这里的她,和在香港的她,过两种不同的生活。她网也不上了,香港手机也关了,沉浸在新加坡的生活里。这里是这里,那里是那里,没有全球化。家人朋友熟悉的食物熟悉的房子,就算再怎么全球化,怎么拉近时间空间,也比不上亲眼所见,亲耳所闻,亲身触摸着、拥抱着、感觉着、闻着、呼吸着……

(传自香港)


轉載自聯合早報
Friday, February 25, 2011

finally no more editing & cropping of photos to send to ICA.. can collect my passport from next mon.. hopefully i look good.. hee

& some procrastination, i finally start using e bag organiser which i got for free.. =P
although it is small, it packs a punch so right now i wont forget abt my umbrella or wallet or tissue paper.. yay!
tho i now also realise why my bag tends to be quite heavy..
surprisingly e camera is quite a weight contributor...
plus my water bottle as well.. hmmm..

then right now im super tempted by cute stuffs again!!!
has been contemplating whether or not to buy the Mac miniature series + Doraemon Happy Meal set & now comes 7-11 Paddington Bear..
from the photos, me & esther like abt 3 from e set of 8..
but after looking at e display samples, now i like more..
& e worst thing is its quite exp + u cant choose e bear u wan!!! urghhhh!!
so shd i even start in e first place??


finally looking at world events, right now the King of Saudi now giving money to its ppl, looks like in a bid to prevent any upstage..
however i do not think it will be effective leh..
egypt tried to do so as well but look at wat happens..
come on lah, if its jus cos of poverty e ppl there would prob hav protested long ago.. why wait till now??
money is not a cure all..
applies to sg gahmen as well..
Tuesday, February 22, 2011

wah lau eh...
can i lodge a complain abt ICA??
rejected my passport renewal twice cos of e photo!!
first is cos its not e dimensions it wanted..
then now is cos e photo image is too big!! *FAINT*
now im super afraid they will reject me for e 3rd time with e reason being, photo image is too small...
lets see what happens...


& i seriously think i better hav a proper weight analysis soon...
ever since at my grandma's wake, there are relatives commenting tt i've lost weight since e last time they saw me..
then today i met some colleagues which i dun meet tt often cos we are at different levels saying tt i become thinner! & one even say tt from far, she initially couldnt recognise me!
did i change tt much?? hmmm


tho one thing i prob need to change rather soon is my hp =.=''
giving me more & more prob...
from jus hanging to auto shut down to whatsapp being auto disconnect & long reconnection time to now some buttons are not functioning!!
wat happens to e trusty & durable Nokia?
& mine is still within e warranty!!!
one thing for sure, not getting a Nokia liao...
high time to look at phones??
Monday, February 21, 2011

Musical Monday

Saturday, February 19, 2011

so now both e budget & Toto winning numbers are out..

for e budget, all i can say is its e usual style of e govt..
e giveout is pretty much e same as the 06 pre-election budget so no element of surprise..
e abolishment of e RTV license which i will say is long overdue
am thinking e govt shd giv out more in view of e inflationary pressures.. jus on fri, e headlines is inflation forecast of e yr is going up to 4%.. perhaps its too fast for e gahmen to react??

& for Toto, din win e smallest prize but luckily i din gamble big..
on e other hand, e 4D still features my numbers on e top 3 prizes..
but if i 'invest' in all my numbers, 'heavy capital' leh..
can someone gives me some inspiration?? haha


TV wise, i think either channel 8 has either no money to produce good shows or taking e easy way out by going to broadcast yet another long TW melodrama. zzz...
now with e abolishment of e RTV license, do i foresee more 2nd rated productions/shows in future??
i want my korean/jap dramas!!!
think next time can dun need to buy TV liao.. =P

news wise,
now catching up on e MENA situation..
e plot is getting more and more interesting..
where it used to be jus one country on riot at one time, now e fire has spread to several countries at once..
Bahrain, Libya, Yemen
wow.. spurred on by prev successes?
& i guess e US gahmen shd hav a big headache now..
how to control extremist from raring its ugly head & how to position itself in this region...
wonders what's on e mind of e chinese leaders as well..
cos they block out searches on Egypt during its period of unrest..
afraid of a resurgence of 1989 Tiananmen Sq?
one thing i giv credit to CCP is their auto renewal of e leaders at least every decade..
but i feel e request of democracy will come sooner rather than later..
反正遲早都要面對, 還不如早點做準備, 至少也能避免大規模的示威活動, 面子也會比較好看。。。

up next will be e Borders bankruptcy..
i rem newspaper is saying tt it wont affect sg operations as it is managed by an aussie co & e next day this aussie firm also fail! how coincidental..
i do hope Borders dun close down tho..
although im not a book fanatic, i feel that sg will become even more of a culture desert if Borders is to vacate which din bodes well....

& finally i surprises me how harsh e chinese cities are when it comes to property right now.. it effectively blocks out foreigners from buying, esp in Beijing. even e beijing citizens are barred from buying if they now own 2 properties!
if e naysayers are complaining e sg policies announced last mth is harsh, they definitely din see this one coming..
i do understand where e chinese gahmen are coming from tho..
we chinese, for some unknown reasons, hav strong attachment to e land & will want sth to call our own & more is always better than less..
tts why e chinese are snapping up e properties like nobody's biz even if e prices are skyrocketing & it means wiping out decades worth of savings..
hence this becomes a scenario when one needs extreme measures to prevent e market from collapsing even worse than e US mkt cos since 08/09, academics are alr waiting for e last straw tt will burst e property bubble..
will sg requires such measures? i certainly hope not..
if so, it implies tt e prob will be damn serious

Food For Thought

阿甘上学

张惠雯
街头隐士

  中国无视自由的教育培养出了大多数奴才和少数反叛者,美国人蔑视束缚的教育则培养出了少数的精英和大多数的懒汉。

——张惠雯

  CC是一位台湾教授,在LH的实验室作访问学者。来休斯顿是居家搬迁,两个孩子都转到本地的学校读书,女儿念中学,儿子念小学。

  女儿初来时不情愿,担心进美国学校会跟不上。但前一段时间,当父亲的访问期限将到,父母商量说要让弟弟先留在美国念完小学,让她回去时,她竟万分伤心。但CC的太太对我们说,无论如何都得让她回去,按照她在美国这种大爷式的上学方式,她绝对通不过台湾联考。接着,两口子便摇头叹息,讲起阿甘松懈无比的、势必要把“小孩惯坏”的教育。

  他们女儿来美国后,比在台湾时已经轻松太多了,上课时间短,作业也少,看电视和上网的时间比在台湾时多了一倍,但即便是这样,作业仍然常常得满分,测试也名列前茅。一次,女儿的美国历史一科作业又得满分,CC的太太有点儿怀疑了。她想,这样的题目明显美国人应该了解得更深,如果女儿都得了满分,美国人要得多少分?她实在疑惑,就问女儿。女儿很坦白地告诉她,美国学生一般都不在乎老师布置的作业,每到交作业时,阿甘们都微笑着面面相觑,真正交作业的就是那四五个人,于是只要交,老师就给满分。她在台湾已养成良好习惯,作业无论是否做得认真,都会带到学校交给老师,因此,她就得了很多满分。

  女儿还告诉母亲一件趣事。她的一位朋友在另一个学校就读,和她一样,基本保持了所有作业的满分纪录。有一次,朋友去了达拉斯,把作业的事全忘了。开学后,轮到阿甘们交作业时,老师的眼睛不断焦虑地望向这位台湾学生,看到这位好学生也脸红着脸低下头,老师彻底绝望。他解嘲地对阿甘们宣布:因为X(台湾男生的名字)也没能交作业,所以我们班今天无一人交作业。

  CC的太太感叹说,难怪很多华裔的孩子在美国都能进斯坦福这样的名校。

  可见,阿甘们的教育反对一切“强制”因素,小阿甘从不用担心面对“惩罚”。上课时上网、玩儿iPhone、睡觉、看杂志都无所谓,不交作业老师也不责怪,何其逍遥自在!和他们比,我们在中国教育体制下长大的人实在很苦。在我的少年时代,最渴望的就是能好好睡一觉,因为自初三以后,我就处于缺乏睡眠的状态,每天从早上七点上课到晚上九点,此外还有堆积如山的作业和试题,压得人抬不起头。老师的惩罚花样繁多,崇尚“当众羞辱”,譬如作业没完成会被罚站在教室门口,或是面对全班同学站到讲台一角“示众”,此外还有体罚,譬如烈日下长跑或独自打扫教室等。

但阿甘和中国人一样爱走极端。他们过度标榜自由教育,摒弃合理的强制和应有的惩戒,虽能让有自觉性的孩子发挥出他们最大的潜能,用在还未具备自我约束力的孩子身上却是个失败。因此,美国自由教育的优势只能充分体现在它的大学教育上。
  教育旨在让人于健全人格外还具备应有的知识和技能,因此需找到有效的方法使得学生掌握这些知识和技能,在这里面,不能缺乏自由,也不能不应用约束。中国无视自由的教育培养出了大多数奴才和少数反叛者,美国人蔑视束缚的教育则培养出了少数的精英和大多数的懒汉。

(传自休斯顿)


轉載自聯合早報


interesting perspective with e TIger Mum debate still fresh in people's mind..

personal view is that everything is abt balance..
be it school, work, relationship etc..
物極必反自有它的道理。。。
所以最重要的是因人而異, 因材施教
Monday, February 14, 2011

touching on current affairs again..


Egyptian President has finally step down after weeks of protest from e people..
2nd 'casualty' within a month!!
power to e people!
i wonder who is next??
& i better read up more abt e Middle East & Africa region to better understand all e happenings...
Like what Dear said, be less East Asia centric..
aim to be a generalist than a specialist.. haha


& USA budget coming up later on..
will be interesting to see what Obama presents & its possible impact on e world..
tho wat im more interested to find out is e upcoming sg budget which will be revealed on Thurs..
& im fairly amused to see how one side is giving reassurance & e other side is managing expectations..
afraid tt singaporeans will be disappointed & hence not vote for e ruling party??
on e online front, there has been quite a number of flak abt how e sg gahmen gives goodies to one's left hand and take back much more from e right hand & say singaporeans shdnt be naive as 羊毛出在羊身上。。。
exactly my thoughts..
jus need to take a look at what happen kinda right after e last GE..
humans hav adaptative expectations one leh..
so u can pull it off once but try doing it another time.. (at least it is one time for me.. cos i realli cant recall what happens after e 01 election, guess im too young to be bothered then)
so i realli waiting and see if e so called open secret will indeed materialise during next year's budget..

Musical Monday





A light hearted song for Valentines' Day!! ^^
Saturday, February 12, 2011

Food For Thought

如意

陈智成
指甲图

  孩提初学语时候,每逢春节,长辈不忘嘱咐,除了平日对长辈的尊称,还要外加贺年好话。那个未入学的年岁里,哪有所谓的讲华语,都是方言。潮语里,最先学会,而且用得最多的新年祝贺语是:“新正如意”。长辈们一听,总会笑着答礼:“好!好!同同如意!”

  比之现在的新派后生的“新年快乐”,“如意”两个字的涵盖面可就无穷了。其他想得到说得出的祝贺词,什么“恭喜发财”“身体健康”“快高长大”“步步高升”“学业进步”“心想事成”,一句“新正如意”包了。你想,如果祝你“如意”,毋论阁下意欲何为,都能称心;各随所愿,各得所需,岂不是最佳祝贺?可惜一句从小到大、到老皆不忘对人说的“新正如意”,如今自成长辈准备好让小子、小女来贺如意的时候,收到的大多是Happy New Year!正是,不如意事常八九,待新春佳节,料想博得仅存的一二分如意,也还是挺难的。或许当下大家共同的欠缺是Happy。一年到头,不论什么场合,什么节庆,一概以Happy祝之可也。祝生日,祝婚嫁、祝周年庆、祝弄璋瓦、祝乔迁、祝爷爷奶奶阿公阿嬷父亲母亲节、圣诞元旦,甚至万寿受难复活,一概就Happy得了,错不了。

  话说“如意”,学问就大了。古代高僧诵经讲佛时握于手上记录经文的佛具,叫“如意”,代表的是人世智慧的权威。福禄寿居中代表禄的那位官服打扮的,手上握着的就是“如意”,代表的是祥瑞,也象征着社会地位显赫,高官厚禄者,哪能不“如意”?

  而今吾辈皆年过半百,或多或少,开始感悟到“神马都是浮云”,周围新鲜人类,新鲜事物,还抵不过一个“如意”。夜半梦回,醒觉背痒,徒手搔不及,床边正好挂着一支“不求人”,轻举一触既释,也就恬然心安。始知这小东西,为何其正名也叫“如意”。


轉載自聯合早報


nostalgic man..
brings me back to my childhood days..
but right now....

still hav tt little pang of regret in me..
Friday, February 11, 2011

first time im bewildered + scared in a dream..
& its feels so real!!
jus hope its gonna be e last of such kind...
Wednesday, February 09, 2011

right now being e year of e rabbit, it has been said that those who are born in e year of e Rat will have fortune luck..
& as if trying to prove e point, my numbers have been coming up & among e top 3 prizes somemore!!
my mum kept saying 'alamak, u shd jus go buy mah.. cos this year is ur year leh..'

so granted, i went to buy another set of my numbers today & guess wat happen..
among e top 3 prizes, one set is jus so close to wat i bought!!
so near yet so far.. dots..
everytime like tt..
shd i continue buying??
$10 million Toto coming up next fri & tml Toto top prize is $888k...
Monday, February 07, 2011

Musical Monday

Sunday, February 06, 2011

Food For Thought

婚姻的迷思

罗伊菲

偶思集

  离开纽约回新加坡前,决定跟多年不见的磁表叔及婶婶通个电话。

  电话那头传来磁表叔敦厚的声音,还没来得及说上两句话,一旁的婶婶已像小孩般抢着话筒说:“让我跟伊菲先说……”那股兴奋和热情强烈地感染着我,让我浑忘要报告他们三妹夫过世的坏消息。听着这对感情老而弥笃的长辈,絮絮叨叨地与我话家常,当年他们于美国缔结良缘时,投掷给台湾家人的风暴,骤然浮上脑海。

  磁表叔是来芬表姑的三弟,只比我年长六岁。高中时寄居来姑家,与姑奶奶朝夕相处,磁表叔及与我同龄的莪表叔都成亲密家人。那年磁表叔刚大学毕业在金门服兵役,碰上烽火漫天的八二三炮战。每一接到他从战地寄来的信,全家人就抢着读。读理工科的磁叔还真有战地记者的文采,信写得详实而幽默,调皮乐天的个性跃然纸上。最记得他说:“躲在防空洞里,时光难捱,只好拿本英文字典背。”等到他终于退伍平安归来,英文程度提高很多,顺利取得美国大学奖学金。不久就负笈美国。

  “她是北平人,属虎的。台大化工系毕业,人很善良热情,我们已来往两年,彼此很谈得来……”。那天去姑奶奶家度周末,姑奶奶与我分享刚接到的喜讯。磁表叔在美国已有要好女友,准备年内成婚。“不错呀,北平人,比磁小六岁,又是同行,真的很理想。”姑奶奶与来姑兴奋不已,喜不自胜。

  没料到磁表叔信中属虎的女友,比他年长六岁。骤然间美满良缘成孽缘,封封信去阻止这桩婚事。磁表叔却是一往情深,执意与这位李小姐成婚。最后姑奶奶只好叹口气说:婚姻就是一场赌博,两人在一起,如果能有十年幸福日子,也就可以赌一赌了。

  当年正徘徊在爱情与友情的十字路口,听到姑奶奶对婚姻,特别是年龄不合标准的婚姻,那带几丝无奈和妥协的说法,更添加了内心对婚姻的疑虑。K大约也有我同样的犹豫吧?在大学时,他曾在为我拍摄的一张放大黑白照背面,以英文写了一则短短的新闻稿。报道说:“刚于美国著名学府拿到传播学博士学位的罗伊菲,昨乘飞机回到台湾……”这是戏作,也是对我的期许。而他自己的憧憬是做一位驻国外的新闻特派员。在我们的世界里,曾经不无天真地想维系永世的友情,做一对事业上的伴侣。

  终究还是跨过爱情的十字路口。尽管内心将婚姻和庸俗画上等号,依然在双方父母祝福下订了婚。那年,K刚从军中退伍,也进了研究所,我俩再度同学;同时又考进了中央通讯社,成了同事。订婚的消息成为母校新闻系《学生新闻》报上的头条。学弟妹们以“七同佳偶”称呼。比妈妈记得的六同还加一同:同事。

  终于和磁叔婶挂了电话。磁表叔和婶婶的幸福日子,走了50年,依然情深意笃。而我和K,也已携手45年。望着窗外明亮的盛夏阳光,不觉思索,美满良缘的妙方何在。每一桩婚姻都是场赌博吗?回首来时路:“两个人携手走过半辈子悲欢岁月,都努力地在营营红尘里,追寻着年轻时向往的意境,绝不让旧情有憾。”(引自《岁月如歌》一文)
Thursday, February 03, 2011

新年快樂~
Tuesday, February 01, 2011

let me jus blog somewhat abt current affairs...

one will know tt elections is coming up when e newspaper started publishing several surveys/statistics within a short time span about singaporeans & their quality of life/satisfaction level/sense of belonging/housing affordability etc..
cant help but take it with a pinch of salt..
are they trying to paint a rosy picture to assure tt most are happy & all is well so those who dun feel so are the AB-normal ones??
will e respondents give truthful answers in e first place too?
okay i admit i can be realli cynical..


soccer side, Torres is leaving for Chelsea!!! sadded..
& he did mention tt he wanted to stay in liverpool for long..
人都是善變的。。。。
而且人不為己, 天誅地滅。。
esp when liverpool has not been at e best of state for a while now..


international wise, seems like e egyptians are dead set on wanting e president to step down now instead of sept..
im still kinda amazed how e Tunisia episode has a rapid effect in the Middle East region.
Perhaps they hav had enough of e corrupt govt and e episode provides e momentum to call for change??

wah, it is Feb before i knows it..
wasted one month liao..
sucks big time...

& CNY coming soon..
hope e coming year will be a better year for me
& for the world too..
alr so mani bad news in Jan, until i kinda lazy to blog liao..