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Tuesday, May 31, 2011

puzzled at why the Taiwan 'chemically contaminated' food incident wasn't reported in sg media until earlier on..
at least i don't see them in the conventional media..
it has been a week and some of the food items are being exported out of Taiwan and hence should be a concern to us
& seems like right now it's becoming from bad to worse...
even Brands is affected over in TW!!
i hope the Taiwanese brand bubble tea is safe for consumption...


at e same time also surprised to hear from the news that Germany becomes the first country to announce a total abandonment of using nuclear power stations by 2022.
is it too much of a knee jerk reaction??
cuz my personal belief is that alternative source of energy is still at infant stage and no one can tell for sure when it can become a reliable + efficient source to produce electricity..


then happy that Barca meets Man U in Champions League final!
seems like the Prima Liga champion is better than the BPL champion.. hee
tho not surprising, cuz Spain is the current World Cup + Euro Cup holder and a significant number of them comes from Barca which helps to explain their strength..
& what Barca did to lead to such success can also be a learning lesson for Singapore.
Don't rely too much on the so called Foreign Talent!!


finally sian 1/2 tt Vettel is winning F1 race again...
can someone, anyone stop him from his winning streak??
Hamilton, must jiayou k??


looking at e local side, Mr Khaw seems to be doing well in his job as MND Minister..
did address the concerns of the people well for now
不愧是新官上任三把火
拭目以待

don't say i biased cuz Mr Khaw is my MP..
giving credit the new Health Minister too.
in his setting of agenda, not bad too..
tho i dunno if its just a follow up left by Mr Khaw, esp on the long term care side..

& also the Edu Minister..
he actually sent a personal email to the teachers asking for feedbacks/thoughts etc
good attitude!


on personal matters...

was reading through the promotion brochures at the various shopping centres to find e best deal to do my hair but sadly they aren't as good as last year..
& from what i've seen so far, the discount that individual shops dish out is just okay.. nothing very enticing except for one category - skincare
just spent a fair bit on skincare pdts (again!!)
i purposely didn't buy in HK cuz i know my inventory is not depleting but end up e apparent pent up desire sees me stocking more items in sg.. haiz..
so right now skincare pdts is my official soft spot..
i shdn't spent a single cent more on this category for at least the next one year...


& looks like right now i got wedding invites phobia
feel quite blue whenever i received one..
it's not that i don't feel happy for them, it's just... a mixture of feeling sad that i'm no longer young (aka early 20s) & uncertainty over what lies in front of me..
maybe i ought to be more positive..
afterall i do have my Dear now =)
despite the hiccups, our feelings are still going strong
hope things will be great when i go visit him ^^
Monday, May 30, 2011

Musical Monday

Saturday, May 28, 2011

Food For Thought

少不了谁

吴庆康

  如果自己真的得在这不息的洪流中退下,乐观一点想,只要曾经的付出启发过某些人,已是成就,无须遗憾。

吴庆康

2359@starhub.net.sg

这个世界上,没有所谓的少不了谁。唯一的分别是,替代的会不会一样好、更好,或更差。就算在世俗眼中无法被取代的人物/东西/事情,最终也会随着生命的终结而告一段落,由别的顶上。

环保人士总是强调,要竭尽所能保护地球的种种资源,不尽一分力,我们很快就见不到老虎、熊猫、大象,很快就会用完各种矿物资源,很快就没有茂盛的森林,没有纯净的空气,没有蔚蓝的天空。他们当然有道理,但地球上种种一次又一次的取代、一次又一次的更新、一次又一次的轮回,不正是生命的定律?

事实上,任何一种东西/动物/人物/事件的没落/消失,其实也正是另一个新阶段的开始,这不过是地球生命的常规。一个新的起步总会带来不安/担忧/振奋/雀跃,一旦浮沉的过渡时期沉淀以后,我们也就自然而然,或在没有更好选择的情况下接受新人事新作风,习惯以后又重新开始另一个轮回。

即使是电脑科技界当神崇拜的苹果总裁Steve Jobs,有朝一日他不再呼风唤雨,结果不外是苹果毁灭或苹果再生,世界就算没有苹果,还是得转。我们可能因此有更好的iPad或iPhone,甚至出现更让人惊叹的其他“水果”。Dior的John Galliano不也在一夜之间被轰出局?若往这个方向一直这样想,是很“惊悚”的,因为任何人任何东西都可以随时被取代,要如何才能确保自己的“地位”稳固,不被动摇?

将这翻译成我们的日常生活,职场上分分钟上演的“适者生存”,一早就在训练我们接受没有谁是不可或缺的残酷现实。我们只能努力延长/提升自己的长处,与此同时随时作好退席/被取代/被更新的准备。而在这个过程当中,要如何维持/保持正直/耿直/忠直的处事做人原则,是一大挑战。

而如果自己真的得在这不息的洪流中退下,乐观一点想,只要曾经的付出启发过某些人,已是成就,无须遗憾。

我们认为没有人能替代杨荣文,没有人能取代李资政?那只是我们潜意识中固执的一种“认为”。到了最关键最需要的那一刻,最终必定还是会有那个人出现,结果如何另当别论。

唯一不那么容易/轻易被取代的,是情。即使是与你共度大半生的另一半,我们也得随时在心理上准备可能有天会有意外发生,并不断告诉自己,少了他/她,日子不会再相同,也许很艰难,但还是得过。

很喜欢杨荣文说的:“我倾向于自我脱离,把自己看成是这股大洪流的一部分,每件事情都事出有因,而大家都是生命中更大洪流的一部分。”

这样一领悟,就会微微一笑,觉得这就是人生。
Friday, May 27, 2011

Food stalls folding up and new stalls replacing them as well as some empty stalls in food centres is such a common sight that people usu don't beat a eyelash over it..
afterall, it is all part of doing business right? either u make money & survive or you lose money & u have to close down..

hence i didn't slow down and ponder abt the 'why/how come' bit when i saw some empty stalls at Amoy Food Centre.
However i do notice that there are more empty stalls over the past 2 months or so.. & looks like they have been staying vacant for months!!

just when i thought it is probably an isolated incident, i saw that the equally well known Golden Shoe has perhaps even more vacant stalls than Amoy!!

something is quite amiss here...

Raffles Place lunch crowd is so crowded that it is the birthplace of the tissue paper culture
surely the pie is big enough to go around
but based on what i see, selling food in CBD isn't profitable anymore??
is it due to the high cost of rental? or high cost of food?
can it be the quality of food that's the culprit??


now i wonder if i will meet with similar sightings if i go to other food centres in the Raffles Place/Tanjong Pagar area
Thursday, May 26, 2011

didn't even realise that i'm having a fever.. super best..
no wonder i felt so drowsy and weak today..

& while on my way home, excited to see lots of SALES sign going around..
or perhaps i shd put a brake..
realli had enough items, except shoes and bags to replace the spoilt ones...
Tuesday, May 24, 2011

The iceland volcano is giving trouble again...
let's hope it wont be as bad as last year..

& e issue of ministerial pay review has attracted more criticism than i expected..
the common ones i saw are like its just for show, e committee wont dare to cut pay by more than 50%, the committee members are not impartial enough etc..

perhaps i belong to the more optimistic kind and think that since PM has the sincerity to do so, we the citizens should perhaps be less harsh and leave our comments till the committee announce their recommendations?
& i do hope that e public will be widely consulted during the review and after the recommendations

tho i must agree with one of the views
that it shdn't be the end and shd instead be a start to a more consultative style, showing that e gahmen do indeed care to listen to its ppl..
& that there will be more pressing issues to tackle afterwards
hence e gahmen shdn't lost sight in e process
Monday, May 23, 2011

Musical Monday




Finally found this song

super meaningful!!


Josh Groban - You Raise Me Up



When I am down and, oh my soul, so weary;
When troubles come and my heart burdened be;
Then, I am still and wait here in the silence,
Until you come and sit awhile with me.

You raise me up, so I can stand on mountains;
You raise me up, to walk on stormy seas;
I am strong, when I am on your shoulders;
You raise me up... To more than I can be.

You raise me up, so I can stand on mountains;
You raise me up, to walk on stormy seas;
I am strong, when I am on your shoulders;
You raise me up... To more than I can be.

There is no life - no life without its hunger;
Each restless heart beats so imperfectly;
But when you come and I am filled with wonder,
Sometimes, I think I glimpse eternity.

You raise me up, so I can stand on mountains;
You raise me up, to walk on stormy seas;
I am strong, when I am on your shoulders;
You raise me up... To more than I can be.

You raise me up, so I can stand on mountains;
You raise me up, to walk on stormy seas;
I am strong, when I am on your shoulders;
You raise me up... To more than I can be.

You raise me up... To more than I can be.
Sunday, May 22, 2011

Food For Thought

我怎样毁了我的一生

阿果

  或许我们都在不知不觉中,摧毁自己应有的人生,只是程度不同罢了。因为我们都不约而同犯下同样的毛病,遗忘、舍弃、否定本初最真实最独特的自己。

三读空间

  这句话不是我对自己这半生的回顾,亦不是我对这一生提早作出的预言式结论。这么严重的字眼,我们真的有可能毁了自己的一生吗?

  这原是一本法国绘本的书名。简简单单的小书,前后仅有18幅黑白插图,文字总数不超过110。前几天为了准备广告文案创作的教学材料,上网搜寻,在某个创意网站看到了这本图画书的介绍。原书作者贝尔当·桑帝尼,绘图贝尔当·哥地尼,中译本由三联书店出版,武娟翻译。

  18幅图勾勒主人翁的一生,前半部童年,后半部成年。每一幅图配上简短的文字,然而图与文在内容上,却形成强烈的反差。反讽是本书的特色,亦是阅读此书的乐趣所在。一开始我们看到一栋破陋寒伧的木屋,那是男孩的家,文字写着:小时候,我住在一座巨大的城堡里。跟着我们看到木屋瑟缩在烟囱四处伫立的城市,吐着乌黑的浓烟,如怪异的擎天大树:城堡坐落在一片奇妙的森林中。阴霾的天正下着雨,但男孩觉得:每一天都是阳光明媚。同学都在玩闹,只有兔宝宝相伴的男孩却觉得:我从来不会感到孤独。大树下,男孩静静地收集掉落一地的坚果,他很开心因为:我有数不清的宝贝。课堂上,男孩在黑板作答2+2=22,全班笑他傻,男孩却认为:我很聪明。直到有一天,男孩长大了,他开始变成和许多人一样,戴上了方帽子:我变得愚蠢。他和许多人一样,也步入婚姻的殿堂,在神父面前许下婚姻誓约:说谎。他和许多人一样,也为股市飙升而欢呼,赚取数不尽的财富:我一贫如洗。他和许多人一样,喜欢出入光鲜欢闹的社交聚会:我没有朋友。最后一幅图,没有文字,只有孤独年迈的男人,重新捡起当年的兔宝宝,脸上隐约泛起一丝笑容。

  说来凑巧,今早在网上收看Ajahn Brahm的讲法录影,他本期分享的题目是“What Do You Want?”。我们活着想要什么?说穿了,很遗憾地,我们难免摆脱不了羊群心态,我们想要的就只是做羊群中另一头像样的羊而已。

  或许我们都在不知不觉中,摧毁自己应有的人生,只是程度不同罢了。因为我们都不约而同犯下同样的毛病,遗忘、舍弃、否定本初最真实最独特的自己,而宁愿消耗全副的精力与生命,去赚取被他人同化的微薄安全感。因此我们想要的,就只是他人也同样拥有的东西,以为拥有了,我们就和他人一样幸福成功了。原来我们一直努力成就的并非自己此生独有的生命,而是整个社会强加予我们的愚民价值观罢了。

  男子小时候,以乐观、知足、独特、纯真的角度认知所处的世界,外在的阴雨霏霏浇熄不了他内心沛然的阳光。他在不尽人意的日子中,真的看得到生活的美好,只是后来他却看不到了,因为心盲了也枯了。我们不一定都得要特立独行,但至少,但至少,别模糊了生命,别淹没了自己。我们不是人群中另一张脸而已,我们是我自己。


轉載自聯合早報
Wednesday, May 18, 2011

didn't expect LHL to announce the new cabinet so fast..
& with several surprises too!!

& 2 newly elect MPs are promoted to Ministers straight!!!
& its Education somemore...
hmmm...

i shall keep a lookout for any future policies..
personally dun realli like the current (or shd i say, previous) one cuz i dun think he really knows Edu well enough & say wrong things somemore..

& perhaps i shd see if healthcare cost is going to rocket afterwards as the new minister previous portfolio is MOM...
Tuesday, May 17, 2011

jialat, realise i took too mani photos in HK until i veri lazy to choose e better ones to upload...

on e contrary, i'm done with e Tioman ones..

but i find it too much a chore to upload the same things on both sides so whoever is interested in looking at the Tioman album pls go to this link: http://www.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.203136306390755.46720.100000831617636&l=cca37ccac5


& here is a summary of what happen during e trip

Day 1: Got a room in poor condition and found out we (e whole grp) is in a way conned by e agent. After requesting strongly to change e room, the bathroom is still *faceplam* cuz 1.bathroom room can't even close properly, 2.the shower heater is faulty, 3.no toilet paper is provided and 4.there's not even a hanger in the bathroom to hang our towels & clothes (used & new) etc.


Day 2: Duty free shop ran out of stock for quite a number of alcohol =.='' & the restocking time is actually later in the afternoon... urrgghh...
Thereafter at Renggis Island, the coral reefs are slowing dying, the colour is not as vibrant anymore and there aren't as mnay fishes as it was 2 years back..

The only consolation for the whole day is probably i saw a shark while snorkeling =P


Day 3: the heavy downpour in e morning disrupts my intended plan of trekking full day.. =(
then decided to join a grp of Malays who are learning Chinese under the invite of another resort lady boss who then subsequently treated us to lunch.
They are also friendly enough to volunteer to be our tourguides to the waterfall which is quite a sight cuz of more water due to the rain!!

upon returning to the village, the lady boss invited us (me & ning) to attend the BBQ later in the night..
she is also kind enough to allocate a room in her resort to us when our room's water supply got cut off due to the all day long rain
but just when I was about to go bathe, the electricity got cut off too so i ended up placing the old style kerosine lamp (battery operated) in the bathroom so i can start showering..
somehow i still remain unlucky as i realise the water is muddy!! so i found myself stuck in the bathroom waiting to get clearer water to wash my hair and face. wat an 'adventure'

BUT the BBQ is superb!! we were treated to plates of fish, clayfish, tiger prawns, lobsters, crabs. The lady boss also grilled chicken wings and cooked rice + noodles to go with the food and make delicious desserts too!
definitely my heartiest meal during this trip and after HK =)
& one guy is gentleman enough to help me crack the crab so i can eat the flesh.. hee


that wraps up this trip..
the last day was spent having breakfast and packing and the water supply is cut off again..
another big disappointment is i cant get to see enough stars throughout the 3 nights!!!
the sky never seems to clear.. =(

overall this trip has more bad than good...

To give credit to the village, the scenery is beautiful and the people are friendly but the room condition did dampen things a fair bit..

but at least the magnitude of the good tilt the balance to me enjoying the people, the BBQ and the scenery..
Monday, May 16, 2011

Musical Monday


the most post election news so far has to be both MM & SM announcing to leave the Cabinet..

i did caught me off guard esp for SM cuz he is not that old in the first place!!

tho i do understand where they are coming from..
there can't really be a renewal of thinking/doing of things if both of them are still ard cuz out of respect, the younger ministers may not necessarily frankly speak their mind..

& also wondering who will fill GY's shoes...


on a personal note, was looking thro some of my frens' FB photos and a question just went through my mind: is it normal for a girl to gain weight after she is attached?? looking around me, this seems to be the case and it kinda puzzles + worries me..

cuz first of all, even tho being in love make you a happier woman, but if ceteris paribus, your weight shdn't change, unless your metabolism goes down..
so if one is gaining several kilos more, it will mean either one eats more and/or unhealthily or one exercises less frequently..

then it brings about the question to why do so when one knows its probably harmful to one's health?
is being attached an excuse to indulge?? hmmm
Sunday, May 15, 2011

Food For Thought

热死人

黄意会

  高温预警解除了,意味着气温已低于35℃。即使如此,连日来的高温已热得让人心浮气躁,抑闷难忍,稍微的降温也难教人心头凉快起来。

  高温不仅影响人的心情,动物的行为也会受影响。

  母鸡集体“罢工”,不下蛋了,难怪鸡蛋又起价了,问卖蛋的老乡我平时喜欢吃的走地鸡蛋可有起价?他摇了摇头,原来这种“特种部队”的走地鸡适应能力特强,不受高温影响,鸡照跑,蛋照下。

  下午3点,煮两个走地鸡蛋吃,感觉精神饱满,竟有了到处跑的冲动,酒店里的球友刚好来电约好4点钟打场篮球,竟不假思索,一口答应。

  下午4点,毒阳高照,感觉气温不止35℃,难道气象台又再骗人?来到球场,发觉竟然是踏入了人间炼狱,此时若在球场上丢下一箩鸡蛋的话,肯定会立即开出一片荷包蛋花海。

  事已至此,不入地狱也不行,只好拼命喝水补充身体流失的水分,两个小时在球场上来回跑动,累得只剩半条命,赶紧举白旗投降。

  这把年纪了,不要逞强,要学母鸡一样,“罢工”不打,是为上策。

  6点钟,毒阳下沉,气温稍降,体内的热气还未尽散,看着那群还在高温下打球的热血青年,只能遥想当年。

  走进酒店的健康中心,习惯性的先洗个温水澡,再进桑拿房蒸几分钟。

抬头看,壁上的电视新闻报道,在芬兰举行的世界桑拿大赛中,60岁争冠选手不幸蒸死!

  赶紧跑出桑拿房,跳入凉水池里沉静几分钟,让心清凉一下。

  这把年纪了,还是不要随随便便跟高温较量,拿这条老命开玩笑!

(传自广州)
Friday, May 13, 2011

3rd time to Tioman and this is the most drama of all...
Tuesday, May 10, 2011

looking at the FB activities, i wonder if the people are too idealistic..
whatever that has been cast in stone cant be changed.. why petition??
until now, i haven see a petition that works in sg..
cut the girl abit of slack, since the GRC has alr chosen (tho e winning margin is small & may not be convincing enough to some), let's see her performance for the next 5 years.
i believe if she is not up to par, her future won't be bright too..

& i think e result of the election did serve as a waking up call for the ruling party..
now they are reviewing some policies, talking about engaging and connecting with the people etc..
i cant help but wonder will things be different if Aljunied isn't won by WP??


another day of not sleeping before a trip, again...

& this time round lagi better..
until now, i haven pack!!
& my mum has been harping on why i always go aboard now... zzz..
if not for not being able to go japan, i wont be going to these 2 lor...
Monday, May 09, 2011

Musical Monday

Sunday, May 08, 2011

decide to go to WP's rally @ Serangoon Stadium on thurs night & e crowd surprises me..
& heard somebody behind me mentioning that with such momentum, if WP does not win Aljunied GRC, it's really saddening..

fast forward to sat nite, i decide to immerse myself in election mood by going down to Hougang Stadium..
from the intention to leave at midnight, i stayed on till 2+ cuz the ambience is high & i didn't want to miss any result..
one thing to complain, the TV is so SLOW!!!
im getting all e updates from FB instead!! zzz...
& i don't get it what took the relevant department so long to announce the results when the votes are completed by ard 11pm!!

im so glad i was at the venue to witness a part of history being created
e cheers, e loud applause, the non stop shouting of WP

BUT this is just the beginning...
tho im happy for WP, the team has to prove their worth within the next 5 years
i also hope that the citizens all over sg will not have unrealistic expectations over what the opposition members can do..
the policies in place WILL NOT change overnight
the opposition is still very much in the minority and the power still remains strongly within the PAP..
but i will be anticipating the diversify of voices in time to come

To the WP Aljunied Team, congrats & jiayou!!!
Saturday, May 07, 2011

Food For Thought

天空

吴韦材

  别告诉我因为你只是一个岛民,因为所站的地方浅窄,那你就可以不必在乎这片天空的宽阔。

  我就喜欢这样的天空。

  其实不久前,在张家界的天子顶也抬望过无边无际的天空,但感觉好像已是很久的事,不知怎么又怀念起来。

  或许身边周围真的拥挤:人们、事情、汹涌的车站、密封的楼层、人造的气候、刻意的美化,耐不住多久教我又怀念起这样的天空。

  初次认识这样的天空那时其实岁数也不小了。卅来岁吧,在阿拉伯海的某个海湾沙漠上,那年龄只是目瞠口呆地觉得天原来可以那么大,大到有点整个人就要浮起来的感觉。说实在当时也称不上什么体会,天空就是大,而也只是认识到它的大。

  不光是沙漠上的天空够大。后来,到了烈城,喜马拉雅山脉这处高原上的天空比纯粹的“大”又多了一些内容。海拔3000多米高的烈城,是藏族密宗文化,一处处喇嘛修道院就建在辽阔无垠的高原瘠土上。白色的高墙,肯定又分明的黑框窗口,晨起时,看到身穿褚红色僧衣的喇嘛像蚂蚁队列般,静静在回廊里穿过,一点声音也没有,那种寂静,寂静得无边无际,寂静得一直向外界源源不绝扩散开去。如此简练的符号,我开始明白天空之所以能感觉到它的大,因为在天空底下走着的,是人。

  因为天空底下是人,是人感觉到这个天空的大。说得直接点,这还是人的幸运,也是人的一点造化。

  教课时我常会给学生看些图片:静静等待绽开的花朵、悄悄浮起来呼吸的鱼、花纹美丽得几乎匪夷所思的贝壳,草尖上自己懂得如何闪烁的露珠,刚刚出世还没张开眼睛的哺乳动物,当然,还有天空。

  对这些图片孩子们很容易就感觉到那份自然的美丽,除了天空。

我是过了好阵子才真正发觉并肯定没看错这现象。然后我就想了。或许一个偌大的天空对孩子来说确实单调了些,我自己是卅来岁才感觉到天空的体会,让这些孩子在十来岁的年龄就去体会无边宽阔,似乎有点不公平。

  但我依然把不少天空的图片放进我所有图片里。至少我希望他们之中有人会记得自己曾经看过这样的一片无垠宽阔,那以后在他有一天真正认识天空的时候,叫出自己回忆之际或许就多了点化学作用,我就希望这一丁点化学作用还在,那么,也许就在一刻间,他也感悟到天空给人的启示。

  因为就是在那么宽大辽阔的天空下,我感觉到自己真是一个踏踏实实站在地上的人。就因为这踏实感觉,我开始从此珍重我自己这个存在。

  是的。身边总是每时每刻围着很多事物。也很容易把身边这团团转的一切就当作是自己仅有的世界了。其实天空一直都在。就在我们头上。就在这栋建筑物与那栋建筑物之间。就在这件事情与那件事情之间。就在这趟车与下一趟车之间。就在每天的这个忽略与那个忽略之间。说到感觉,就连“感觉”这两字现在也因为用得太频繁,分身乏术,连感觉都模糊了。真有诚意要感觉一下,当然是可以的,记得大早起来清修那些喇嘛么?至少学习那样地专注一阵,至少让自己静下一阵,然后抬起头,果敢地看到天空最远的角落去,再想想自己究竟是站在哪里。

  别告诉我因为你只是一个岛民,因为所站的地方浅窄,那你就可以不必在乎这片天空的宽阔。

  地球比岛还小。地球比一粒尘埃还小。

  能明白这句话你就能领会天有多大。而当你能真正感觉到自己站在一个无私宽阔之下,你就能明白这几十年你出席于这个现场的意义了。
Wednesday, May 04, 2011

seems like if one wait long enough, unexpected things can really happen..
BUT my stand still remains: too late too little...
Tuesday, May 03, 2011

君子報仇, 十年好像真的不晚。。
但是否值得呢??
Monday, May 02, 2011

香港之旅 =)

after hearing stories after stories tt HK is not cheap etc, i decide to go on a rather frugal trip..
but surprise!!
perhaps its cos of e 10+% depreciation of HKD, things are affordable if not cheaper than sg!!

okay, NOT ALL things are cheaper..

the followings are cheaper..
NOTE: exchange rate now is approx S$1=HKD6.20

1. ALCOHOL!!!!
reminds me of tioman siah!!!
2 330ml of San Migel is HKD 12.90
so tempted to substitute water with alcohol.. =P

2. Bus/Tram ride..
So long as you stay within Kowloon or Hong Kong Island (meaning don't need to use the underground tunnel), it is cheap..
seems like all buses run on a flat fare
Tram ride (no air con) is HKD 2
Normal bus (similar to SBS buses but with BETTER seats) for the one i took is HKD3.40 but it is limited to within HK island. Haven tried e bus ride within Kowloon so no info on that.

3. Fastfood!!
a McChicken burger in sg cost S$2, the same thing cost HKD8!
McValue lunch in sg starts from S$4.50, it is HKD20 in HK!! even cheaper than KL!!
What's more! MacD even have McValue Dinner in HK everyday from 6-8pm at the same price!! >.<
no wonder while i were there, one of e South China Morning Post headlines is about how undervalued HKD & RMB are right now and that HK and China serve the cheapest MacD in the world!
now i regretted not even having a burger in HK...

4. Bubble Tea
Pricing is similar to Taiwan..
Ranges from HKD 12 to 18 for a big cup
& one cute thing, I can't find KOI aka 50嵐 in HK..

5. Perfumes!!
PLS PLS PLS don't get your perfume in HKIA duty free stores..
"Rumours" that you can get a better deal in the streets of HK is indeed TRUE!!
Check out the prices at the airport first and then go Sasa and/or Bonjour to compare the prices.. Price differentials can be as high as 30 to 40%!!!
agrees with what a Sales Asst told me, "You'll regret if you didn't get a bottle of perfume back"

6. Dim Sum!!!
needless to say, since HK is the home to dim sum..
had a realli good serving of dim sum at a popular restaurant in Mongkok and e bill only come up to be S$10 per pax!
& during the session, i ordered a tasty big bowl of sesame paste for only HKD6.80 =D

7. Skincare pdts/Comestics!
Referring to drugstore brands (the kind you will find in Wastons/Sasa etc).
The Jap brands can be 30-40% cheaper.
2 good examples are Hada Labo and Madom Cleaning Express Cleanser Range (Makeup Remover)
As for comestics, as i didn't intend to get them, i didn't do much homework prior to going over.. but the impression i get is it is 10 to 20% cheaper...

8. Branded Goods
Agnes B, Longchamp, Kate Spade and Burberry are cheaper.
From the ones i've looked at - about 10% cheaper.
& there are brands not available in sg eg Jill Stuart

9. Haircut!!!
A colour job can be just HKD120
& another salon is advertising cut&wash+colour+rebond for just HKD299!!!
wasted i din have enough time.... ='(

10. Cab fare after midnight
NO 50% surcharge!! =D


The following category is on par with sg price level

1. Clothings
if you go Mongkok and Causeway Bay, not very different from sg..
Mongkok is abit like Bugis Street/Far East Plaza but i feel the quality is better..
The pricing at Causeway Bay is higher but personally i feel it is reasonable given the quality.
Alternative for cheaper clothing: GO Shenzhen!!! (but must REALLY bargain HARD)


What is MORE exp in HK

1. Food
i think e food centres (or more fondly known as hawker centres) in sg is one of a kind in e world tt sells cheap food.
The cheapest food i can find in the 茶餐廳 is maggie mee served with egg/luncheon meat/chicken and price starts from HKD20.
Other dishes (for one pax only) ranges from HKD 30 to 50..
& extra charged will be incurred if you asked for iced water..
For warm water (which is essentially hot/boiling =.=''), it is FOC - but it's better to clarify

2. Shoes
now i understand why Peggy always buy shoes back to HK whenever she comes back to SG..
don't get it why they are pretty exp down there, esp if the shoes are imported from China.
If you think that Charles & Keith is getting exp, wait till you see e prices in HK.
But fret not, there's always Shenzhen to go.. heh..

3. Bags
Just like shoes, you are going to be disappointed if you are the kind who usu spend S$50 on a bag bought from a departmental store..
Or perhaps i didn't look hard enough?
Even in Shenzhen, i cant manage to find bags tt appeals to me in both design & price..
Or perhaps i shd say im really hard pressed for time in Shenzhen to look around..

These are just the categories which i notice..
i heard tt electronics esp Apple products are cheaper too tho i didn't find out..
well the rest is up to you to explore! hee..

now just some food for thought...

Q1: how did the HK govt manage to balance its budget when the goods are all tax free (no import duties, GST etc) and its personal income tax + corporate tax rate is lower than SG?
A: over-reliance on property tax..

Q2: Why is it that the transport companies can keep fares low while maintaining high frequency of bus/trains??
A: I need to do searching liao.. haha


so how does HK compare to Taiwan?
hmm...
Food, shoes and bags are cheaper in TW.. tho i must say the quality of the bags bought in TW night markets is not very good..
Clothings is cheaper in TW as well but more towards causal wear..
skincare pdts/comestics shd be more or less on par
alcohol & perfume definitely more exp as TW is not tax free..
& you can find more Jap magazines in TW.. lolz
the rest i'm not too sure..


so will i go back to HK?
a definite YES!
cos i haven't
1. cover all the famous night markets/streets
2. go from 中環 to 半山腰 via escalators
3. had enough of dim sum + desserts + bubble tea + fast food
4. club the whole night at Lan Kwai Fong
5. go to 黃大仙 temple
6. travel to Macau
7. get my hair done there
8. shop & drink enough!!! ;p



however, it is not a trip without hiccups for me..
this is what happen:
Day 1: My luggage lock was damaged the moment i arrived at HK + was assigned to a smoking level at the hotel..

Day 2: Got scalded during dim sum brekkie cos this big size guy just bulged in between me & Joe with his hot kettle to refill the teapot and my left hand was in contact with tt kettle and in knee jerk response, i spill the hot tea (i was holding e teacup with my left hand) to my right hand + lost my ticket for the Lantau Island cable car ride

Day 3: Found myself alone in HK Island as i need to go back to hotel to settle my luggage (while most others are shopping in Mongkok) + board the wrong bus when on e way back to my hotel from Causeway Bay such tt im way over shot..

Day 4: Screwed schedule partly due to Day 3 which leads to super intense travelling for me + miss the last MRT in Shenzhen + lost RMB10 in the cab (luckily its not SGD)

Day 6: Bus driver drove off from Terminal 1 without noticing tt me & SL were still trying to push our luggage to the exit door + while on the flight, a Chinese couple asked me why i adjusted my seat backwards & subsequently asked the air stewardess to 'persuade' me not to do so..


only peaceful day is day 5..
first time i encounter this much of suay/無奈/sian diao/weird incidents..
luckily these didn't dent my mood & i really enjoyed myself.. =)

look out for the photos!!
shd be up before i go Tioman

Musical Monday

Sunday, May 01, 2011

Food For Thought

低薪的快乐

王嬿青

内外

  如果有两份工作供你挑选,一份是做牛做马的很辛苦地每月拿万元高薪,很少有自己的闲暇;一份是工作清闲但月底只有可怜的一两千,却有很多空闲时间供自己支配,你会如何选择呢?

  有句话说,“50岁前拿命挣钱,50岁后就要拿钱养命”。意思是说,如果年轻时不懂得休息,保重身体,只管拼命埋头挣钱的话,年老时就有可能天天药罐不离手了!

   现在,都市里出现了“低薪休闲族”,他们重视生活质量,宁愿放弃高薪却紧张的工作来换取更多的休息时间,从而达到一种“可持续发展”,而不是像以往那样 拼命工作挣钱!他们的特征就是经常休假或辞职,然后独自穿行名山大川,体验风餐露宿的快乐;放弃假日丰厚的加班费,结伴驱车驰骋于荒山大漠;因为周末经常 出差,和经理闹翻脸;在转工跳槽时,宁可要低职低薪,甚至主动放弃高职高薪,为的是拥有一份悠闲和快乐的心情……

  “低薪休闲族”让人多 少有点跌眼镜。不过也说明有更多的人开始把身体健康和享受生活作为生活的目标来追求了。很多人在物质生活尽管实现了“小康”,但精神生活、身体状况却没有 实现“小康”。很多人永远仍然像只不停旋转的陀螺,不由自主地把闲暇的时间全部投进去,以期得到更多的钱和权力。

  A在一家公司做项目经理当高层,听说他每月的工资近2万元,管着几个大项目工地,每天得早上五点多钟就上班,晚上要到十点才能回家,节假日也不例外。不久在一次体检中,做项目经理的A被查出胃癌晚期,他的妻子哭得戕天动地,可一切都晚了。

   我还有一个朋友年轻能干,在一家大型跨国公司做业务经理很多年,年薪十多万元。但最近却要跳槽,不是往高处走,而是找了个没什么加班(当然薪水也少)的 单位上班。他的理由是因为工作太忙,长年累月加班加点,身心疲惫到极点,最近到医院体检,发现患了冠心病,他为此非常郁闷。“健康是最重要的,没有健康钱 再多有什么用?”在高薪与身体不可兼得时,他放弃高薪工作。现在的他过得很逍遥自在,时间多了,有空就钓钓鱼,旅旅游,逛逛街,“钱少的生活好像更有生活 的质感,以前人好象是漂的!”他说。

  法国后现代大师罗兰巴特曾说,他所设想的理想生活应该是:有点钱,不要太多;有点权力,也不要太多,但要有大量的闲暇。很认同这种说法,又觉得要达到这个目标是多么不容易啊。  

  钱是永远都挣不完的,而生命对我们却只有一次,所以健康和快乐才是最重要的,失去了这两样,再多的钱也只能是废纸。“低薪休闲族” 为了寻求生活中的平衡点,他们不太愿意像前辈那样牺牲个人生活。他们重视的价值观是真正的友情、快乐和幸福。

虽然不一定富有,但有自己的时间,能支配自己的时间,轻轻松松快快乐乐做自己喜欢做的事情。

  从西班牙旅行回来的时候,发现那里的生活太悠闲。2点开始吃午餐,4点进公司上班,9点多的街道开始逐渐热闹,人们喝酒聊天,自由自在……时装,艺术,红酒,爱情,家庭,烂漫而美好的地方……

  不过记者女友冷冷地说:“悠闲啊,所以他们金融危机了呀……”说着风风火火得赶去下一场采访,啃着半只面包。