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Thursday, July 30, 2009

jus when i thought spore is not an exciting place to shop, i discovered it seems to be rather otherwise during this GSS & this GSS onli..
GSS jus ended and i realli spend loads..
in 2 mths, think i spend some 4 digits, including sprees but excluding food and transport..
shit la, like $$$ veri easy to come like tt..
seems like im becoming more and more spendthrift..
not a good sign..


& i got some samples from Fr3b.com
not exactly a pleasant experience right from the start cos one of the sample i requested came in a much smaller size than i expected and their explanation didnt convince me too..
oh well...
sianz...


anyway this is what i got..





1. Eucerin Sunblock SPF50
2. Dr G BB Cream
3. Cest Natural Mud Wash
4. Waston Green Tea Mask
5. Beauty Credit Aloe Pack
Monday, July 27, 2009

finally i got my HTC phone repaired, it was being sent to my home this afternoon =D.
not easy to find a person to exchange battery with.. lol..
& got quite a big shock when i got the service care report..
cos according to the report, the LCD screen is spoilt so they change the whole screen..
not onli that, the camera is also spoilt so they also replace it..
so i now literally got a new phone.. =P
& no wonder the repair fees is close to $200..
speaking of this i realli pek cek.. HTC customer service can actualli lost/misplaced the proof of purchase i passed to them.. =.=" n tts why i got the $200 bill..
luckily i asked Singtel to email me the proof of purchase instead of snail mailing to me..
if not i sure cry..

& recently i progressed from watching dramas to playing online games n participating in forums..
& din realise that it can be fun plus addictive..
right now logging on to the games and forum site everyday..
need to know how to control liao..

Musical Monday





梦醒在三更

蔡小虎&张秀卿 

作词:巴 布
作曲:蔓 萱
编曲:尤景仰

女:盼君到三更
等你到何时
男:我犹原犹原爱你
伤心痛归暝
女:无缘的等待你
惦故乡等待你
男:飘浪他乡卡多年
我的心肝已经醒
男:鸟只夜夜啼 女:嚎抹离
合:悲情梦醒在三更


女:望君到三更
听你开门时
男:我心内点点滴滴
梦中寄乎你
女:脚步声暗欢喜
落雨声骗自己
男:飘浪他乡为着你
等我成功回乡里
男:永远伴相随 女:情绵绵
合:痴情梦醒在三更

女:脚步声暗欢喜
落雨声骗自己
男:飘浪他乡为着你
等我成功回乡里
男:永远伴相随 女:情绵绵
合:痴情梦醒在三更
Sunday, July 26, 2009

Food for Thought

有钱人
翁燕萍

  

新加坡有钱的人不少。不想要钱的人很少。不是真的有钱又自以为很有钱的人还真不少 。

  有一种有钱的人或多或少都有点儿 打从心底的、潜意识里的瞧不起人。他们有的是钱但是未必有品味。而他们本身并没有察觉,也无需自觉。另一些有钱人从小就生长在有钱人的世界里。他们一辈子 都不会明白在这世界上有些人的孩子养不起,有更多的东西买不起,还有房子住不起的。他们无法体会,也无需去经历。反正他们永远也不会踏进穷人的世界。

  有一种自以为有钱的人以为自己很有钱。他们以为自己高人一等,其实矮了很多节自己都不知道。他们还没真的有钱就已经够嚣张,很有钱了的话那还得了?还好这种人通常到最终还只是游离在不是真的有钱的有钱人。

  还有一种真的有钱但看起来不是有钱人的样子。他们可以退休了但还继续地工作着,为的是热忱还有消磨时间。他们可以住洋房但是并没有这么做,他们跟其他将近九成的新加坡人一样住在政府组屋里,平日乘搭地铁上、下班,到邻里中心里吃饭。

  最可爱的是那种既有钱又温文尔雅的人。他们看上去就是有钱人。他们有怜悯之心,也有乐于接受不同阶级人士的心。他们让你倍感亲切、舒服,有知识也有涵养。他们没有不可一世,不只口袋里有钱,他们的内心也是富有的。

  不关你自认有没有钱,希望你的内心是富有的。加油咯!



轉載自聯合早報
Monday, July 20, 2009

Musical Monday





爱到才知痛
黄乙玲

为着你今天要来找我
从早上等到深夜
阮总是相信你会跟阮来作伴
犹原没影没只

我不敢想那没你甘会像我
按怎都我的生命
寒风也冷不过你对我的心肝
哪通糟蹋着我

爱着你心惊惊
想着你心痛痛
但是我没法度将感情收拾
看着你爱别人就亲像你爱我
按怎拢未心痛

爱着你心惊惊
想着你心痛痛
我已经没资格对你讲条件
等别人对待你亲像你对待我
爱着才知影痛

为着你今天要来找我
从早上等到深夜
阮总是相信你会跟阮来作伴
犹原没影没只

我不敢想那没你甘会像我
按怎都我的生命
寒风也冷不过你对我的心肝
哪通糟蹋着我

爱着你心惊惊
想着你心痛痛
但是我没法度将感情收拾
看着你爱别人就亲像你爱我
按怎拢未心痛

爱着你心惊惊
想着你心痛痛
我已经没资格对你讲条件
等别人对待你亲像你对待我
爱着才知影痛

爱着你心惊惊
想着你心痛痛
但是我没法度将感情收拾
看着你爱别人就亲像你爱我
按怎拢未心痛

爱着你心惊惊
想着你心痛痛
我已经没资格对你讲条件
等别人对待你亲像你对待我
爱着才知影痛
Sunday, July 19, 2009

finished reading Harry Potter 7..

this book has been lying around in my house since it was 1st sold in spore (my sis bought it then) and i onli 1st touched it after i watched harry potter 6.. *diaoz*

& my reading speed surprises me..
cos i tend to read quite slow..
shit, upon typing, i realise i tend to be slow in wat i do.. read, eat, bathe.. jialat..

anyway back to the book, i guess why i read fast is cos i now master the art of speed reading.. lol..
i was skipping on the lengthy descriptive parts and start to read when the plot becomes exciting again..
& frankly speaking, the book is rather boring..

the pace initially is so slow..
until i was telling myself im not watching harry potter 7 pt 1 in cinemas..
then the story does picked up but at a too late timing and everything thereafter seems to end in a rush..

quite a far cry from the first 3 books which captivated me right from the start..

now, one to-do-thing done and now i realli need to sleep.. =P
Saturday, July 18, 2009

Food for Thought

存仓过去
吴庆康

  其实不是因为要过年,只是因为没有办法。

  家里东西越来越多,实在腾不出多余的空间来摆放那一大堆丢也不是收也不是的东西,终于做出决定,租了个小货仓存放暂时无法/不愿丢掉的东西,把过去暂时“存仓”。

  我相信有过这种“丢不了”经验的人必定不少,但持相反态度觉得所有东西不过是“身外物”的人也很多,所以只要是地方不够,没有什么是不可以丢的。毕竟,严格来说,人生也不过是匆匆的一次经过,只要是带不走的东西,当然都是身外物。

  但问题是,这短短几十年的经过,我们的身外物其实也不是很多。尤其是像你我住在政府组屋或小公寓的一般人,从小到成年的最私人时间不过都只在一个小单位里的一个小房间里度过。试想想,我们一生中所有的“硬件软件”都可以在这一个小房间里储藏、启动、活跃、静止、删除。把几十年浓缩/挤压在大约30平方英尺的空间并不算过分,把任何这个房间里的东西丢掉,实际上也就是丢掉了一部分的自己。

  不管你是否念旧,除非你已经在心灵上进行过大扫除,丢任何东西之前确实应该三思哪些东西与自己有些什么亲密关系。

  难怪我们总是有那么多觉得不能丢掉/只能收起的东西,因为只要多丢一些,似乎就意味着自己的一部分也被抹掉了,这或许就是为何我们每次大扫除的时候都那么痛苦的主要原因——成长的点滴怎能如此轻易丢弃?

  幸运的是,我们在不同的阶段会觉得有不同的成长部分可以忘记/放弃/更新。

  一些模糊了的童年回忆片段;曾经是“最好朋友”的玩具熊/娃娃;各种“限量版”人人都说很值钱但从来找不到买家的垃圾;早已经不能用/没有人用的种种“短命”但昂贵的科技产品;读过一遍觉得该好好收藏但没再看第二次的书刊杂志;当时觉得穿上必定更神气但只穿过一次就被冷藏的时装/服饰产品;出国旅游时觉得很有纪念性一定要买但从此摆在床底下的各种纪念品;初恋的/争吵的/愉快的/不愉快的书信,甚至是收了好几年的早已完成/已经不必完成的工作上的电邮,等等等。

  以上种种的重要性会随着时间的推前而渐渐改变,当有别的更重要更值得保留的东西出现的时候(也许旧照片和旧录像除外),曾经的“重要”当然会退位,这才造就了可以扫和除的余地。
只要我们的储存空间(不论是实际上的还是脑袋)里的容量固定不变,我们就不能避免得经常进行各种各样的扫除,于是我们每隔一段日子就来一次大扫除,过年过节正好是去旧迎新的大好借口和时机。

  除非我们什么都不介意,都没有感情,都觉得没有必要留恋,扫除还是得被当成一种“定时活动”,因为我们的今天都由昨天奠基而成,有些基础确实不能说弃就弃,还得等新基石的出现才能替换,因此要潇洒地当一个没有过去的人恐怕不是如说的般简单潇洒。

  难怪租借仓库行业相当兴旺,因为我们都无法潇洒地不顾过去只活在今天。


轉載自聯合早報



有回憶,緬懷過去並不是一件坏事。。
正因爲如此, 人生才會甜蜜,有意義。。
所以留些東西作紀念也無可厚非。。

但如果只沉浸在回憶裏, 就是一種逃避, 不願面對人生的懦弱的行爲。。
畢竟往事只能回味。。
Thursday, July 16, 2009

quite a num of stuffs happened this week n last week tt i feel a need to voice out my thoughts..

first up, the riots in Xin Jiang, China..
wonder if its influenced by riots in Tibet last yr.. =P
from the limited info i've read, it seems like its e native of Xin Jiang against e Chinese there..
seriously, after thousand of yrs, the Han Chinese today is hardly the so-called 'pure' Han tt existed 2000-3000 yrs ago lor..
take South China for example, in the Han dynasty at around 6 BC, Hokkien province and Canto province are not part of the Han terriorty lor..
they are seperate countries on their own before they were defeated by the Han and incoporated into the Han region
so strictly speaking, are the ppl living there Hans prior to their defeat? i also dunno cos not well versed in History..
but dont these ppl descendants see themselves as Hans now?
for Xin Jiang, with the Han Chinese moving over and with inter racial marriage, one can say that the Chinese have alr blended into the native's way of living and also part of them..
hence why the hatred??
& now the Chinese in Xin Jiang is seeking revenge..
冤冤相报何时了??

next is the response to the death of Michael Jackson..
when i first heard of his death, im jus like "what? he died?"
then that's it..
but seems like millions more have more reactions than me.. =P
perhaps im not grown up listening to eng songs ba, tt's why i dont get the big hoo-ha..
anyway when the media is still speculating about his real cause of death, about how he will distribute his wealth, digging up his old news/scandals, i dun think its respectful to the deceased la..
jus let him RIP..


& MAS has banned some banks/financial institutions in selling structured notes ranging from 6 mths to 2 yrs...
frankly im quite surprised at the 'punishment'..
instead of looking at the real cause of the probs which are lapse in internal check/ misrepresentation and hard selling etc and tackling them, the banning seems more like a publicity telling the whole world that MAS has 'nabbed' the guilty parties and have punished them.. & since they are punished, end of story and let's move on..
WTH??!!

is it really the end of the story??
does these financial institution really know their mistakes and now make an effort to improvise their operations eg stop 'targeting' those elderly who merely went to bank for veri simple transaction??
onli time will tell though..

& as if MAS does not need to shoulder any blame..
i know they did send ppl to financial institutions to conduct random checks at random interval, then how come during such checks, they cant find anything amiss?
or issit 道高一尺, 魔高一丈?
Wednesday, July 15, 2009

realise i tend to watch movies during this period of time..
issit cos May/June/Jul period got more interesting blockbusters than Dec period?
anyway watched 4 movies in 18 days and 3 of them i watched it FOC..
& not watch online but in cinemas.. =P
its all e latest blockbusters & realli need to thank all e sponsors
can even use free tix to hold a gathering.. lolz
initially thought this idea of mine wont materialise..
but then it happened tt its cos the sys super lag such tt we were only informed tt we got e tix in the morning when e show is supposed to be later in the evening!! =.="

anyway jus came back from watching Harry Potter 6 n since its gala premiere, u can see ppl dressing up in wizard costumes and cameras flashing..
i cant imagine tt e whole Lido is booked for Harry Potter screening..
& wonder how all e ppl who attend got the lobang aka free tix from..
for me i got from a mag contest.. secret? cant tell la.. haha

anyway cos we collect e tix quite late, we ended up sitting in e 1st row.. hmph.. no free seating..
but its not as bad as i thought it'll be, i jus lean lower into e seat and find a comfort zone and i can watch e whole screen le.. =D
then our phones and laptops had to be 'confiscated' before entering the theatre as a security measure to prevent leakage ba since US time is 12 hrs behind us..
but me n one fren realise we got another phone each inside our bag which we forgot to declare when we are alr inside.. oops.. but my tt phone is spoilt anyway..

not a bad movie, and there are some realli funny moments even though the theme ought to be dark.. good for us la cos if its too dark, some ppl esp kids may not take it well since afterall harry potter is more meant for tweens and teenagers..
but towards the end, i cant understand and link up the different parts and the ending kinda sucks..
then my frens cant believe book 7 still got part 1 and part 2 cos tt will means we will take 10 yrs to finish watching the whole series!! e 1st movie is shown in late 2001 ba..
so now im starting on e book 7.. hope i wont get bored n gave up jus like LOTR.. heez

& its official, i din make it to the Sudoku finals..
e organiser is kind enough to notify me thro email even though its stated tt only the finalist will be informed..
may decide to drop by the finals next month to see the contestants pitting their skills against one another.. ^^
Monday, July 13, 2009

Musical Monday

酒後的心聲
江蕙

作詞:童皓平 
作曲:童皓平

山盟海誓 咱兩人有咒詛
為怎樣你 偏偏來變卦
我想未曉 你那會這虛華
欺騙了我 刺激著我

石頭會爛 請你愛相信我
最後的結果 還是無較詛
凝心不驚酒厚 狠狠一嘴飲乎乾
上好醉死 勿擱活

啊 我無醉 我無醉 無醉
請你不免同情我
酒若入喉 痛入心肝
傷心的傷心的我
心情無人會知影
只有燒酒瞭解我
Saturday, July 11, 2009

Food for Thought

四分之三生活
王嬿青

  往返在两地,有一个好处:你会把两个城市看得更清楚,也会清楚自己更适合哪里。我告诉朋友,现在每年四分之一时间住在新加坡时,他们开玩笑说:“那新加坡成了大老婆了。不过这样的比例是对的,四分之三时间住在小老婆那里,哈哈。”

  我总觉得选择在什么地方居住以及选择和什么样的伴侣一起生活,有很多相似之处。新加坡像个大老婆,这话新鲜倒是有几分道理。

   生活就是如此琐碎和具体,实实在在平平淡淡的,上班讨生活下班买菜吃饭管孩子,节假日看父母聚朋友,一年度个假。你不会因为向往巴黎街头的咖啡和博物馆 听不懂语言赚不到钱而住下来,也不会因为美丽小姐风姿卓越而决定把她娶回家。也许会,但“太超过”的事情总要付出代价:为了喝巴黎的咖啡而在洗巴黎咖啡馆 的杯;为了美丽的女人,而像超人般赚钱以提供对方比较庞大的个人开支,可以尝试但坚持不久。偶尔去一次巴黎感受欧洲风情是美好的,和美女邂逅有些情感的交 集也是值得回忆的,也许那是给平淡生活的一点点缀。承认吧,生活是平庸的,你会比较容易感受快乐。

  新加坡的好,是要住久了才知道。年轻的时候,掀起红头盖,你会觉得她端庄但的确拘谨。

   我上海的女友总笑我死心眼,为什么可以在新加坡那么小的地方,那么死板的地方住那么久?美国中国地大物博,欧洲有历史文化,新加坡除了一条乌节路和圣淘 沙,什么都没了。问题是,你是住在一个地方,不是去一个地方旅行。住下来的时候,你不会天天去看自由女神和故宫博物院,你关心的是能否赚到钱,税收高吗? 绿化和环境好吗?教育体系如何?公共交通如何?居住成本是否昂贵?和社会的融洽度等等。

  身边有不少离开的朋友:住上一两年就离开的,是 受不了天气四季常夏;住三四年离开的,是觉得专业上得不到发挥的舞台;住五六年离开的是觉得文化生活上比较匮乏,没有志趣相投的朋友。特别是住上七年离开 的,不折不扣的七年之痒。和一个地方适应和一个人适应都是一样的,磨合期其实很长,过不了七年关的最可惜,因为再换一个地方,这七年等于浪费了,问题是, 换一个地方会更好吗?其实等到八九年住下来,发现这里各国风味聚集;超过十年以后有了很多本地朋友;十三四年下来,这里的空气环境,工作体系,最主要找到 了不少情谊相投的朋友。住得久了,你的心安定了,你才有心思去发现这个城市很多隐藏在严肃后的优点,你也不得不承认,新加坡把这一切收拾得妥妥帖贴。

  新加坡的好,是离开后才知道。凡事有了比较,也就有了珍惜。

   很多时候,你会向往外面的世界,外面广阔的市场,抱怨自己的市场太小,体制太古板,审批太复杂,但在很大程度上, 你不得不承认新加坡像个程序设置很好的机器,只要一启动,就开始运作了,就开始产出了,虽然创意和改变因为怕输而有些难度。而在很多地方情况更糟糕,要么 关系太复杂,要么体系很乱,要么贪污腐败。任性的小姐虽然有她可爱的地方,但日子久了,太累,还是懂事的好。

  新加坡的好,是有了些年纪有了些经历才知道。

当你冲击了自己的梦想,走过了很多地方,蓬头垢面带着心灵的皱纹回来,洗个热水澡,吃一碗熟悉的鱼丸面,在雨树的绿荫下漫步,你就哪里都不想去了。男人女 人年轻时可以是美貌活力,性格智慧,中年以后有一样东西是让人离不开的:那就是温暖。所以,四分之三的生活还是应该在一个温暖的地方。



轉載自聯合早報。。。
Wednesday, July 08, 2009

夜深人静时的胡思乱想。。。

我用力把心握碎
只盼能让思念减少一点
才发誓不再为你伤悲
却发现心中还有依恋
以为我已走远
心却还在你身边

为你伤悲为你泪流
日子不好过又如何
多苦我都会承受
最怕你什么都不说
几个伤口几次痛
谁付出较多
还有什么可以保留
什么都没有

想放弃却不能甘心放手
留妳在梦中却苦痛了我
等着伤心不如学会承受
反正妳不会是我的
等妳想起不如先忘记妳
反正离开妳的人是我

they say:

to fall in love is always easy
to start a relationship is always simple
to build it, is always tough
to maintain it, is 'better said than done'
to break off, is 'easier said than done'
to remain friends after u broke off, is never possible
to forget the memories is 'always doing but never succeeding'
to heal the pain within is hard and tough and never near simple
but one has to try to heal your own heart..

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惆怅迷惘
踌躇未决
低回不已
身心交瘁
真是一言难尽。。。
Monday, July 06, 2009

just watched AYG swimming and bowling live on AYG website..
quite surprised that AYG comm knows how to make use of the internet well.. lol..
well, im quite a fan of swimming and bowling..
& its certainly fascinating to watch the teenagers not losing in any way to their older compatriots in terms of the fighting spirit etc..
the bowling game is jus so good!!
in terms of scoring, i seriously dun think they are in any way inferior..
their mental, their focus/concentration, their desire to win even though its only AYG
& congrats to Basil Low! at least he din let the Koreans dominate both the boys n girls Master champion ^^
& i guess New Hui Fen is either tired or going under the stress after all these days of competition.. but still, good one & jiayou!!
equally salute the swimming team!!
lay a good foundation to our pursuit of the Olympic dream..

moving on to international sports, Federer did it again!! & this win makes him the greatest male tennis player!! admire him man!!
at 27/28, he shd be slightly over his peak but he won his 2nd Grand Slam this yr to dispute talks of his decline..
frankly speaking, I thought the new up-and-coming players like Nadal and Djokovic will pose a serious challenge and overthrow the dominant Federer.. this is esp so after Nadal won the Olympics gold medal in singles and also beat Federer in the Wimbledon and US Grand Slam finals to emerge as champion last yr..
but it seems like Federer is fighting back, hard, this yr..
& poor Nadal.. having to suffer from serious knee injuries at a rather young age..
recover fast k?
tennis fans are looking forward to your showdown with Federer again ^^

for soccer, the most jaw dropping news for me is Michael Owen going to Man U!!! OMG!!! why he went there?!! betrayal to Liverpool fans man!! & i guess Man U manager also desperate to find a decent striker to replace Ronaldo ba.. But why Owen?? realli goes on to show that in battlefields, there is no such thing as enemy forever or friends forever...

so right now i'll see if Owen can get back to his prime days.. his age and old injuries doesnt realli bode well..
& i do hope that Liverpool can goes on to win the premier league this yr, esp when Man U strength now weakened and unable to play good players cos of Real Madrid!! but they realli needs to be more consistent!!

& i shall also sit on the fence to see if the show-hand purchases of Real Madrid is going to wreck havoc in Champions League as well as Prima Liga..

hmm writing until here, can see tt im quite a sports fan..
swimming, bowling, table tennis, badmintion, tennis, soccer, volleyball, beach volley, basketball & gymnastics are my faves..
can play a little bit of everything mentioned above except gymnastics but master of none..

realise im more of a breadth than depth person in almost all aspect of my life..
took interest in an array of stuff but the things tt i can do well is realli limited.. not cut out to be a genius.. =P

Musical Monday

舞女
黄乙玲
作词作曲:俞隆华

打扮着妖娇的模样
陪人客摇来摇去
红红的霓虹灯闪闪识识
引阮心伤悲


谁人会冻了解
做舞女的悲哀
暗暗流着目屎
也是格甲笑咳咳

啊。。啊
来来来来跳舞
脚步若是震动
不管伊是谁人
甲伊当做眠梦

我拖着沉重脚步
伴音乐西来西去
人客也对阮讲甲乱乱纷纷
引阮心忧闷


甘愿无人知影
做舞女的悲哀
暗暗流着目屎
也是格甲笑咳咳

啊。。啊
来来来来跳舞
脚步若是震动
不管伊是谁人
甲伊当做眠梦


甘愿无人知影
做舞女的悲哀
暗暗流着目屎
也是格甲笑咳咳

啊。。啊
来来来来跳舞
脚步若是震动
不管伊是谁人
甲伊当做眠梦
Sunday, July 05, 2009

stupid father passed me his coughing virus to me..
initally i was on the way to recovering le but right now..
sian leh...

this flu tt i caught is far more persistent than i thought..
but luckily no sore throat and fever..
its just running nose + headache + cough..
but e headache and running nose is alr a big headache..
it jus wont go away n instead exhibit some 'sine curve' behaviour.. *diaoz*

i better go get some masks...

have been meeting with astro ppl for the past week..

1st for ktv which is like finally!! ^^
cos its been like 5.5 months since i last went to ktv..
but i went late cos got co event earlier on..
so din get to sing much also..
but at least i got sing enuff duet! =P

then went for movie with the same group..
& that's when the bizarre movie incident which i mention about happened..

lastly jus went shopping with 2 of them..
initially jus wanted to accompany them onli..
then become i end up buying some items too..
*dot*
but the items are nice la.. lolz
seriously, when it comes to shopping, it realli depends on your feel of the product which can be rather elusive..
so that's why i dun hav a shopping list when i went out shopping.. haha

& i realise that when i went out with the astro ppl, i will spend alot on food..

cos after ktv, went crystal jade..
for the movie, we went Mahanttan Fish Market for dinner (find the fish onli okay, Fish & Co serves better fish) and then went to Haagen Dazes for fondue as supper..
JN & YL cant complete theirs so me & JY end up helping out with some of the cakes and fruits cos we dun wanna waste food..
easily can gain weight from there man..

then for shopping, we went to eat Iciban Boshi..

dunno should i say we know how to enjoy life or spendthrift.. =P


& here are photos took during the gatherings..



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Saturday, July 04, 2009

Food for Thought

小组屋大女人
黄向京

  最近你陪朋友看房子,位于市中心附近的永久地契公寓,在发展商的巧思设计下,营造了一幅“梦想的家园”愿景。蔚蓝天空中打造的摩天高楼,如此当代透明的质感,让为三餐打拼的都市人,仿佛觅得喘一口气的空间,难怪示范单位展示厅内挤满了人。

  这个楼房设备完善,令你联想将来若住在这里,连生活方式也是趋于理想的——每天晨早游个泳,傍晚在鸡蛋花香中环着走道散个步,夜晚在树木葱郁中做瑜伽,以冥想结束一天的生活。

  从希腊运来的大理石花纹,一整面的实木橱柜,黑白米褐色的家具摆设,营造一种当代摩登的生活品质。从德国进口的厨房用具、知名的浴室品牌,哦,连浴室地板也是大理石铺成的,大理石包围的白浴缸,令你怦然心动——要在这里泡掉一切的烦恼……

  只是,人生与现实是这样的,你只能跟朋友自嘲:你的荷包永远跟不上品味;只能非常遗憾,每平方英尺近千元的价位,非能力所及。恐怕你每天劳累工作回到了家,已经错过了黄昏与夜晚,晨早爬不起来去游泳,还是供不起每个月的银行贷款。

  可能奋斗到你勉强供得起的时候,亲爱的,你已经老了。也许,到时,这些从外面透进来的阳光未免太强烈了一点,你要的不再是那么黑白分明窗明几净的空间。

  朋友笑说,可是供得起这些楼房的人很多啊,现在你明白为什么有些年轻女人非豪门不嫁,无论如何都要挤进上流社会?如果是你,你要不要?

  在社会打滚多年,你当然耳闻眼见不少,也明白一些年轻女人们的选择,只要长得好看,条件好点的,与女明星艺人一样努力争取嫁入豪门,进入上流社会;为了坐拥豪宅轿车名牌,也把自己当成名牌,身上带着价码标签,闪闪发光。有时连受高等教育、知名度,也成为一种附加价值。

  看着一辆又一辆的轿车驶进了示范单位,你不由想象着公寓的美貌女主人慵懒地伸长纤细美腿躺在泡泡浴缸里。包法利夫人们属于这里,也依附着这里,穿着与生活品味无懈可击,衬得起大理石优雅的花纹与雨花洒的水滴。

  只是,人生与现实是这样的:有钱的,并不代表有品味;大多富有人家的品味是他人打造出来的。富人需经三代才知如何吃喝穿。

人各有志。美好理想的生活人人有权追寻,可是,你也知道,无论怎样美好理想的生活,都要付出代价。一切依附着别人的人,又有何自由可言?当然,如果自由不重要,娜拉是不必出走的。

  在你看来,金钱诚可贵,自由价更高。自由从来不是人生的最高追求,而是人生的最基本需求,像空气一样。

  凭一己之能力,一天辛劳回家,小组屋里还是有这样的一口白浴缸,让你舒服躺在里头做个独立自主、自给自足、自由自在的大女人。

huangxiangjing@hotmail.com

轉載自聯合早報

Wednesday, July 01, 2009

at times i wonder how come Sporeans behaves in such a way tt its as if their granddaddy own the road/train...

incident 1:
i was boarding bus num 851 last fri from novena to go to town.. time is 5+pm aka peak hour..
aft e bus wanted to move on aft me n a few passengers board e bus, e bus driver din travel far cos there is this car (car plate num SGX1160E) tt blocks the bus as it is parking on the same lane in front of a shop.. apparently e girl went to get some stuff n she noticed the bus before the car (cos she lifted her head) when she opened the car door..
thinking tt e car will move soon, the bus driver waited and did not change to another lane.. but the car didnt..
as i was standing veri near the front door, i can see what's happening inside..
when e girl went inside the car, the male driver went to peek on her lips and was touching the gal..
irritated, the bus driver horn..
BUT tt stupid driver still continues his lovey dovey action
until he feels satisfied then he slowly drove the car away..
whole duration lasted for about 30s..
n until another passenger beside me got so buay tehan muttered some scolding words..
its was at times like this i hope i can take a pic of this stupid couple..
but at least i rem the car plate num: SGX1160E

incident 2:

yesterday there is this uncle who boarded the MRT from Sembawang station with me at ard 9+am and this uncle was came in with his friend. they stood in front of me and the moment the train moves, he started speaking to his fren in Hokkien..
sounds nothing right? i also think nothing much of it until....
this uncle is speaking on top of his lungs non stop for 25 min until his friend alighted at Orchard station..
okay la, he got pause for a while on 2 occasion and each 'peace session' i got lasted less than 10s..
n when he dun talk hor, the whole carriage is super damn quiet one leh..
but this uncle still buay pai seh and continue to talk at the super loud level even perhaps aft realising that he is the source of this noise pollution..
i alr hav a headache prior to this n this uncle simply aggravated my headache..
makes me wonder how come a 50+ yr old uncle got so much to talk one ah??!!
im SO super glad when his friend finally alight at Orchard station..

2 ultra thick skin + inconsiderate ppl..
all my yrs of taking public transport, i've never been SOOO pissed before..
issit me tts getting more impatient??
or simply sporeans are getting more rude??

then even in cinema, i met weird ppl too..

the story goes like this:
i booked tixs in such a way that there is only one seat each at either side so we practically have the whole row to ourselves.. =D
but when we reached the cinema, i saw our row alr has 3 ppl.. WTH..
so i approach e person sitting at e side "Excuse me, this is our seat" and this couple (dunno if real couple or not cos cant see clearly), upon hearing us actualli leave the theatre! strange right?

but since we were alr late n e film has alr started, i din give it much thought n was telling myself maybe they need the light outside to determine their correct seats..

but then some 20 min later, this couple came in again and this time round, they came in to sit one row behind us..
& i was like 'huh? need so long to check one's seat meh?'

the guy was sitting right behind me la..
& dunno if he seek revegne or wat, apparently he got long legs and was stretching his legs until it reaches my seat n for countless times, his shaking of his legs rocked my seat until i cant concentrate on e film.. *KNS*
until i cant tehan i turned back n gave e gal a angry look then e guy sort of 'tame down' his actions..

then strangest part of all, they decide to leave the theatre ard 30min before the end of e film..
& before they left, i heard plastic rumbling sound which means tt they were eating jus now..
wah, all e more i damn pissed cos the theatre is PICTUREHOUSE leh!! aka no food and drinks allowed..

what kind of human are they?!!
1st take other ppl's seat without any apology
then only know how to irritate + trouble ppl (by walking in n out severeal times) during the screening..
& finally were eating/drinking when its prohibited..

seriously makes me think these 2 shameless ppl did not buy tix for this film and were someone who wanted to watch an extra free movie and decide to try their luck (that they wont be discovered and chased away) to watch a Picturehouse film..

dunno how come im so suay man...