牌如人生，人生如牌
独家原创 Sharon
玩久了扑克会产生一些感叹，也许就是所谓的人生感悟吧。
德州扑克玩久了，会生一种感慨：牌如人生，人生如牌啊！
有的时候，一段时期总也不来牌，即便来了大牌，要么没人跟，要么被badbeat，痛苦莫过于此；可有时候，牌来得好，上得也好，偏偏又有"鱼"来跟牌，大赢一笔，可谓人生得意；有的时候，既便AA王牌在手，也可能被72O干掉。有时，翻牌圈、转机圈一直占先，最后一张river牌却急转直下，被人斩落马下，可谓乐极生悲;而小牌在手，只要坚持，换来的竟也能是"柳暗花明又一村"。当然有时，牌明明不占优势，但可以通过打法让对手弃牌投降，这自然是经验阅历在起作用了。
真实人生不也正是如此吗？当处逆境时，要坚持，不放弃，自会别有洞天；身处顺境时，万万不可太过得意，须知激流险滩在前，会让人乐极生悲的。人生阅历经验丰富了，会凭此避过一些陷阱，甚至赢得一些东西。当然有的人也会因为经验欠缺一点，关键时刻未能笑到最后。
所以，玩牌久了，会悟出一些道理用来指导自己的人生。知道要做到在顺境中感恩,在逆境中依旧心存喜悦,不骄傲，不气馁。同样，当知道人生并非一帆风顺，而是有波峰，有低谷时，打牌就会谨记：当牌不顺，知道低调处理，不冲动，不失去理智，有如当年韩信能忍胯下之辱，目标在前方，而不只是眼前。当牌很顺时，不会骄傲，乱打，而是更加谨慎，知道低谷随时会出现。
如此，真所谓牌如人生，人生如牌，牌人合一，这难道不是打牌的一个境界吗？
轉載自 http://www.pokerlistings.hk/cards-life
kept nodding my head when i was reading e abv article..
when playing asshole taidi in genting, my cards were quite good..
esp e one time when im e 2nd last n i need to pass my best card to e 'queen' and e 'queen' needs to pass e worst card to me, i was so surprised n was thinking perhaps i can win..
but then i still end up as 2nd last cos i dun have control over e game.. each time i play out a good card someone will throw a better card.. sianz..
tts when my colleague was saying having control is perhaps e utmost importance..
but with control also comes strategising and taking full responsibility cos u now cannot blame on luck, e overall situation etc.. (though these might also be mere excuses)
however once u lose control, u can also follow e tide n may not be able to do things u'll pretty much like to... just like playing cards..
with control, u can 'throw away' ur worst card and preserve your good cards.. if not u'll be stuck with a lousy card which u prob have no chance of getting rid of..
isnt life e same as well?
